Yup, it's like the title says, lol. Come to this site looking to meet new people, and stuff like that, I get a gazillion friend requests, but.... still, nobody really to talk to.



Kinda annoying.



Isnt there anyone that'd want to chat with me over AIM or Yahoo or something? Could trade pics, too, if anyone wants that. People seem to ask me for more photos alot.



Anyway, Im Zeiram07 on AIM and Deihlanos on Yahoo, if anyone should be interested. I tend to be on late (like now).

Ya know, it's odd, Im STILL getting a TON of friendship requests.



Most nights, I'll check my email, and there'll be a couple of messages saying that someone has sent me a friend request on here.



Now, I have no problems with this, and will accept anyone,



but I keep wondering why this is! Most of them dont say why they sent one.



Why do I get so very many of these?



Is it because they looked at my photos and liked it? Or is it something else?

Ya know, I'd been offa this site for a time... and I come back recently and find that all of my photos have been dumped.



And apparantly this happened to everyone.



I wondered, originally, if maybe they'd had a major server crash... makes sense, this site seems to have one of the WORST servers I've EVER encountered in all of my time on the Net; Im running a very high-end connection, and it takes bloody FOREVER to get to ANYTHING on this site.



But no. Now, I think I know what the real reason is.



It is, once again, all that stupid crap of nudism VS sex, and how you just CANT mix the two, heaven forbid!



Before the pic dumping, I had a photo of me on here, just one, which was of me with an erection. I liked that photo. Other people liked that photo, and told me so. Not ONE person EVER complained at me about it.



And that's why I put it up; I thought it might be nice for those that might wanna see it. And I was right.



Now though, well, I went and uploaded various pics again... a full 10.



But I come back, and... 2 of them are missing. Seems they never fully went up. And I know why; because I had an erection in those two photos.



Now, I ask, what in the bloody hell is wrong with this? Nudism is SUPPOSED to be about acceptance... yet it just AMAZES me, as to just how NOT TRUE that is. Here's how it seems to me: Normally, if Im just naked, Im fine to look at. Nothing wrong. But apparantly, as soon as my penis extends, suddenly Im this ugly sinful thing that is not to be looked at? Sorry, I dont think so.



Oh, and I bet I know why the admins decided on this. Something tells me they may be having population problems on this site... not getting enough people and whatnot. So they think, well, maybe if we "cleaned up" a bit it'll draw more people. Get rid of that NASTY sex!



What they DONT think of is that some of us might be avoiding the site because it takes 2000 years to load a single page, and that page will inevitably then not function correctly.



And then! This is the part that REALLY gets me!



When they go and "moderate", they cant even DECIDE on just what they're moderating!



Lets look at this a bit. The two pics of me that were removed, were pics of me with an erection. Im attempting to put those photos up again... Im sorry, they're NICE photos, and Im well aware people like them, so Im trying one more time.... but I see the "pending approval" mark on them right now, and I KNOW what's gonna happen....



HOWEVER.



There was another photo on here. There's one, where, Im sitting on the ground, on my knees, leaning back, with my legs spread. This is, obviously, NOT an innocent photo... anyone with 1/4th of a brain can tell just by looking. The POINT of the photo is to provide a good view of my penis. It's INCREDIBLY obvious, yet.... that photo was accepted just fine.



That's bloody stupid.



What, exactly, is wrong with this? Erections are natural. And, frankly, there are those that just plain like seeing that! I, myself, am gay. I *like* penises. An erect one can sometimes be a very pleasant sight. There's nothing wrong with this!



Sex is a natural thing, and really people, just because you're a nudist doesnt mean you should start totally ignoring your sexual side too. That, again, is bloody stupid.



And I know what some people are gonna say: "oh it's to protect the kiddies". Again: BLOODY. STUPID.



First of all, the ONLY type of parent that EVER actually says this, is the one of the worst types of parents... the type that doesnt know how to discipline and watch over their kids correctly. It's EXACTLY like the parents that whine about violence in videogames, another subject Im very familiar with.



But the REAL reason kids get to see these things? Because their idiot parents arent watching them properly, and arent teaching them well!



It's a very simple fact: If you let kids go onto the Net, there's a HIGH chance... not a low chance, a HIGH chance... that they'll stumble upon something of this nature. It is, simply, the nature of the Net. Any idiot knows this.



So to the parents that whine about it... WHY, if it's such a major issue, are you allowing your kids to go onto the Net at all? DO your damn job... which is parenting... and DONT blame it on others if something goes wrong. If something goes wrong, YOU screwed up. Not me, not someone else. YOU.



But I, mainly, am just tired of this crap, when it comes to nudism.



Like, for instance, the fact that I've never been able to even TRY going to a nudist resort.



Oh, there's one that I could get to, a couple of hours from here. But I cant go there.



Why?



Because they "dont allow singles".



What. The. HELL.



First of all. Dont assume that because Im a single male that Im going there to "oogle at girls". Im not interested in girls... at all. And frankly, I wouldnt exactly be expecting to see much in the way of particularly good looking males there either. That's not the bloody point!



But they have SUCH a problem with the sex side of things that they instantly have this assumption that if Im going there as a single, I *must* be after that. I cant POSSIBLY just want to, for once, be able to be naked OUTSIDE instead of in my damn bedroom.



And you know what? Im gay. Im not GOING to have a girlfriend to bring with me, ever. And something tells me there's no way that two guys coming together would ever get in, cause "oh, you must just be trying to get in to look at girls. Go away.". Cause, sadly, that's exactly how these people think.





So I wont be trying out such a place anytime soon.



And what a load of rubbish that is.





Im not even sure what else to say here now.... hopefully, I've gotten my point across.



The fact that this site... which used to be quite fine with this sort of thing and have no problems, has suddenly seen the need to "stamp down" and take it out... AND they dont even have the smarts to DO IT RIGHT at least... well, to me, that's incredibly stupid. The type of thing that's making me really tire of this place very fast.



I probably wont be coming here much anymore, sorry to say.

Ya know, I'd been offa this site for a time... and I come back recently and find that all of my photos have been dumped.



And apparantly this happened to everyone.



I wondered, originally, if maybe they'd had a major server crash... makes sense, this site seems to have one of the WORST servers I've EVER encountered in all of my time on the Net; Im running a very high-end connection, and it takes bloody FOREVER to get to ANYTHING on this site.



But no. Now, I think I know what the real reason is.



It is, once again, all that stupid more...

Ok, here's something I always wonder about.



Alot of people who are into nudism and whatever, very often say that many things are more fun to do, if you're naked while you do them.



Why is that exactly? I never fully understood that.





By that logic, if Im sitting here gaming, it's fun enough, but if I take my clothes off, suddenly the game is even more fun.



I dunno why that is.





Im not gonna deny it though; just taking my shirt off wouldnt do anything, but if my lower half is uncovered, pow, things are more enjoyable. Which might be a little odd. Most guys enjoy taking their shirts off but leaving pants on. Opposite for me; I prefer to still have a shirt on at times, but be nude from the waist down. Is that strange? Probably sounds a little perverted.





Still, the whole concept seems rather odd to me. But people always say that that is the case.







Also, since it's been awhile since I've updated this, Im posting a few new pics up.



Like last time one of them will be a bit more sexual in nature; I've got my legs spread in that one. Yes, the point is to show off my fun parts. Dont like it? Dont look at it. *I* think it looks nice though.





Feel free to comment and such if you like. I love feedback on things.

Ok, here's something I always wonder about.



Alot of people who are into nudism and whatever, very often say that many things are more fun to do, if you're naked while you do them.



Why is that exactly? I never fully understood that.





By that logic, if Im sitting here gaming, it's fun enough, but if I take my clothes off, suddenly the game is even more fun.



I dunno why that is.





Im not gonna deny it though; just taking my shirt off wouldnt do anything, but if my lower half is uncovered, pow, thin more...

Well, I know I dont say too much on here, lol, but I dunno if anyone bothers reading what I put on here anyway, so....


Well, I DID at least add a couple photos to my gallery tonight, if anyone cares to view. Mostly just cause Im REALLY bored.

I notice something on this site though.... there's alot of more sexually-oriented photos on here than I'd expect from a nudism site.


Is that such a bad thing though?

I know some people get this idea that goes something like "Omigod this guy has an erection, he's a perv" or maybe "look at what that girl is doing, what's that got to do with blahblahblah".

Frankly I get sick of such whining.

Lets face it; we're not much different from animals in the simple fact that we as a species have a desire for sex wired into our brains.

And what's so wrong with that?


As far as Im concerned,

if "Nudism" is "acceptance of the body", then it should be acceptance in ALL forms. An erect penis shouldnt suddenly make the body some awful thing to be avoided.

I cant stand hypocritical crap like that.

I like nudism, yes. I really do. There's so often when I wanna be able to just take off my clothes when Im outside, simply to enjoy the air and sun without stupid clothing getting in the way.


But you know what? I have my sexual side too. I have the same desires as anyone else. I look at porn, same as so many do....

Omigod, isnt that just TERRIBLE?

And what makes it worse.....

Im gay.

Oh no! That's even WORSE, isnt it???


I mean, good grief.


I'll admit it; I have my exhibitionist side. Sometimes I like showing off my naked pics for reasons other than nudism. I generally do that on other sites though.

Is that really so damn AWFUL though? Who says I cant express my sexual side? Nobody, that's who. Not if they know what's good for them, heh.


As such, onto this site, I have gone and posted, into my gallery, exactly one picture of me with an erection. And it's still a danged innocent pic, even with that.


If anyone has such a blasted problem with that? They should, then, stay away from me and my gallery.... *I* am fully in touch with my sexual side, unlike so many others in this country.



Sorry, I know, bizarre blog post, but a conversation with a friend got the whole issue into my mind.


I am also, as I said above, *really* bored, or I wouldnt bother typing all this out.....


Need something to do..... blah..... bored......

Well, I know I dont say too much on here, lol, but I dunno if anyone bothers reading what I put on here anyway, so....


Well, I DID at least add a couple photos to my gallery tonight, if anyone cares to view. Mostly just cause Im REALLY bored.

I notice something on this site though.... there's alot of more sexually-oriented photos on here than I'd expect from a nudism site.


Is that such a bad thing though?

I know some people get this idea that goes something like "Omigod this guy has an erection, he's a perv" or maybe "look at what th more...

Hmm, now here's a question I keep wondering about....

Friend requests. I seem to be getting alot of them on here, despite my low presence on the site here. Havent actually done much on here yet.

Does this happen for most people? I mean, I dunno how anyone even finds me on here. And it's usually people that I had never yet seen or met in any way.

It's not a complaint, mind you.... I dont wanna offend anyone by this. Im just curious as to reasoning behind this.

Is it because someone read my initial blog? Is it because of the pics I have in my gallery thing? Or does this just happen to most people on here?


Just curious, that's all. Most of them dont give a reason when they send a friend request...

Hmm, now here's a question I keep wondering about....

Friend requests. I seem to be getting alot of them on here, despite my low presence on the site here. Havent actually done much on here yet.

Does this happen for most people? I mean, I dunno how anyone even finds me on here. And it's usually people that I had never yet seen or met in any way.

It's not a complaint, mind you.... I dont wanna offend anyone by this. Im just curious as to reasoning behind this.

Is it because someone read my initial blog? Is it because of the pics I have in my gallery thing? Or more...

So, yeah, my first post on this site.

Im gay and something of a femme-boy, two things that arent normally acceptible in general society.... but Im hoping that a place like this, which seems to be about acceptance, might let me find some friends who arent bothered by those things (and have an interest in nudism). It's not always easy for me to find new friends....

Specifically, friends to chat with online, though meeting some in my area would be nice too.


I've not had much of a chance to expore nudism myself yet... the area I live in sucks, and the nearest nudist-place is at least a good 4 hours from here, in the next state....


I've had a few friend requests already from people, despite me not actually posting anything here till now. Danged if I know why.

Well, so, this is my first post, and if you look in my profile, I've put some more naked pics of myself up. Just nice simple full-body photos. Feel free to let me know what you think of them.


Anyway, if anyone sees this, and would like to chat, come find me online.... on AIM, Im Zeiram07. On Yahoo, Im Deihlanos. I tend to be on quite late, and often.

So, yeah, my first post on this site.

Im gay and something of a femme-boy, two things that arent normally acceptible in general society.... but Im hoping that a place like this, which seems to be about acceptance, might let me find some friends who arent bothered by those things (and have an interest in nudism). It's not always easy for me to find new friends....

Specifically, friends to chat with online, though meeting some in my area would be nice too.


I've not had much of a chance to expore nudism myself yet... the area I live in sucks, and the nearest nudist more...